The rules dating forum

Speaking as someone who has zero dating experience, I have my more social-oriented friends try to give me all these tips on what to wear, how to act, what the signs are, and honestly, none of it makes a damn bit of sense.

My big worry is that I won't find anyone who clicks with me, and that I would have to become a pathetic slave to the rules of social interaction for guys and girls, because quite frankly, I haven't seen any true success around here with anyone being themselves or with anyone following the pattern.

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